I'd forgotten that most people, just because I've seen them here together from home, like Simon and I, didn't start out here together. I've learned from others that Simon and I showing up at the same time is a bit of an anomaly. Privately, I wonder how I would have taken it, that first day, if I'd been alone.

I listen quietly, and quirk a curious brow at what that secret could possibly be. Ross seemed like a temperate man to me, and I can't imagine Demelza marrying someone who lived a scandalous life. Then again, back when she's from, the most inconsequential things are probably considered scandalous.

"That sounds awful. Unless they're abusive, I'll never understand why people try to impose their judgement on who other people want to be with. Simon and I weren't together back home, but I know my father wouldn't approve."